So You Want To Be A Stripper?
How to become a stripper is a question that many a women have thought about at least once or twice in their lives. Shake a little butt, show a little boob and bang before you know it your bringing home $300 a night. Depending on the place and night it could be more. Sounds like a no brainer right? Well think again. There’s more to being a stripper other than taking off your clothes and dancing on a pole. You need to know firstly how to work that pole, and how to be seductive doing it. Also need to know what to say to these men as well as how to say it. Well today we will be digging a bit deeper into the subject.
Forewarning: All the advice and tips that I will be sharing today are from my personal experience as a stripper. I was a stripper in Atlantic city NJ for 3 years and made a lot of money doing it. Trust and believe that I do know what I’m talking about. Before we get into anything I want to let any ladies here reading this know that, knowing how to work the pole is essential. I’ve added a link here so you can check out a class I took that took me from $100 A night to $350+ a night. Check that class out and add what I teach you here and you will be making those big bucks in no time I guarantee it.
Without further ado let’s get started.
Your “Spit Game”
Learning how to become a stripper:
Ladies let’s keep it clean now. When I say spit game I do not mean anything nasty, so keep your dirty little minds in check. Spit game is a term that the ladies in my club used to refer to the way we talked to our clients. Your “spit game” needs to be A1. You need to know what to say when you get asked weird and seemingly disrespectful questions. You will be asked all sorts of things and you need to be ready for it. The Most common are:
- Do you have a boyfriend?
- Can I touch, or What can I touch?
- Do you like your job?
- Are you a Naughty girl?
- The most commonly asked, what’s your real name?
When asked questions, you can not allow yourself to feel disrespected or get angry, Now of course if a guy completely crosses the line then you can react however you want and report his ass. But other than that you need to understand that men come to strip clubs for many reasons other than seeing naked women. Some men just want to feel wanted. Some just want to flirt. And of course some want to push their limits. In either scenario you need to be smooth and seductive with your words. I’ll Give you some examples by answering the questions above.
- Yes in fact I do Have a boyfriend. Actually I have several.
- You can keep your hands to yourself, and let me do all the touching. That’s what I’m being paid for. (this is a great way of keeping control)
- I only like my job when I get to spend time with guys like you.
- Depends on how much money is being throw my way.
- My real name is Rose but you can call me daisy.
The point is to just have some fun, flirt and try not to lead them into thinking they’re going to get anything more than a lap dance.
Understand That Time Is Money
You will come across the occasional cheap ass, who is trying to get as much as he can for as little money as he can spend. If you want to know how to become a stripper, then know that time is money. You do not get paid hourly, so any time being spent not making money or making minimum amounts of money, needs to be recognized immediately. If someone seems to be wasting your time or doesn’t want to pay appropriately then you just flat out need to let him know. Of course you want to be polite and sexy in the way you say it but he needs to understand that if he wants more time with you, then he needs to pay up. Let’s Face it, you’re not shaking you’re ass for fun. Your here to make Money! When learning how to become a stripper, you need to know time is money.
Always Be In Control
If you want to know how to be a stripper then this one is a must. You should never get Drunk or high on the job. You never want to leave yourself vulnerable to any situations that can occur. You don’t want to get raped, robbed or sloppy. You’re Here to make money, not lose it. Stay in control of yourself and you will control what happens around you. Yes you can have a little fun at work, but never allow yourself to lose control.
Learn How To Dance Like A Stripper
This one may seem obvious but you would be surprised at how many girls are horrible at pole dancing. If you want to know how to be a stripper you need to understand that when you are on that stage you are giving every man out there watching an impression of you. If you are on that pole looking like a fool or just not looking sexy, then the guys are going to be focused on other things. You want to use your pole time to really attract the mans attention. Forget about the chump change that gets tossed at you. You want them to want to be up and personal with you.
You want them to pay for a private lap dance. That’s where the money comes into play. Not only do you get more money for a private lap dance, but you also get time alone where you can use your seduction skills to squeeze everything you can from them. Depending on how much you or your club charges for a private dance, but you can make $100 in 15 minutes easily. Not to mention if you do a good job they’re going to want more private time. I can smell the money already.
So you can see why learning how to work the pole and dance well can really pay off. If the men do not know you then your pole dancing will be what draws them in. Learn how to dance like a stripper here. Also pick up some extra tips and tricks from other girls in your club. Even better go to a high end strip club one day with some friends and check out what them girls are doing. You never know what you will learn. I knew of girls bringing in about 2 grand a night Friday and Saturday only. And they swore by their pole skills. You can see why it’s important.
Picking Your Club
The last piece of advice I will leave you with is this. Pick your club wisely. There are some shady things going on in some clubs out there. Especially the not so famous ones. I know that when you’re first starting out that the bigger clubs don’t really want girls that don’t have experience but make sure you don’t go to a club that’s going to mistreat their ladies. Make sure the club you pick you ask some of the following:
- How much do you get paid per lap dance and private dance?
- When are their busy days? How many people do they expect on a busy day?
- Is the Club protected?
- Do the bouncers walk the girls to their cars at the end of their shifts?
- How many girls are currently on the schedule?
You get my drift. Ask any questions that are going to affect your money and your safety. Also make sure you like the atmosphere there. Get to know the other girls, and most importantly get to know the bouncers.
All in all always keep at the top of your mind that your not just a dancing stripper, your more than that. Some times your a therapist, some times you’ll be a masseuse, or even some ones “imaginary” girlfriend. It’s up to you to find out what it is that your client needs and make sure they receive it (with in reason). Ultimately your there for the money, and when becoming a stripper, that should always be a priority. So good luck ladies and be safe.
Here’s Something a little extra for you. There’s a post on this site that was written on how to keep a man interested in you. When learning how to become a stripper this is a key skill. So go check out that article as well as some of the other on the site. Even tho the other articles don’t have to do with stripping, they do deal with grabbing a man’s attention, and that’s something that you need in order to learn how to be a stripper. So check them out.